#4. Play footsie
Wears a lot of high heels, run the side of your foot up and down his calf, first on the outside of your leg, then the inside. Then kick off your shoes and caress his legs with your bare feet. Let toes tickle his ankles. At home or sitting in the dark back booth of your favorite neighborhood pub, put your bare feet in his lap, and…he can’t stand up for a while afterward.