#4. You are boring
Boring dates feel like a torture, and no one is interested in going into one or sticking around when they realize that they have to push the conversation to simply fill the time. Surely there is no shortcut to becoming a more interesting person. But there is a great, long-term solution, you started learning more things about yourself, about your environment and the world. TV, magazines, books, meeting new people, watching different shows, and engaging in social events will give you much more material to think about and form your views on. As you become a more interesting woman, this will go far beyond improving your dating life and will make you much more attractive and interesting to your friends.