There is nothing worse than being with a man who has a good stroke, who is doing everything the way he should, and getting you close — only to have him switch it up at the last minute. Changing rhythms too often, getting really fast when she is clearly enjoying it slow, or not respecting how sensitive she is down there, just makes for bad sex. Women are not something that needs to be pounded at like a jackhammer breaking up concrete. It’s all about finding where she’s happy, and keeping it going until she asks you to change. Here are 9 new sex rules every man should memorize.
#1. Great sex does not necessarily equal orgasms
It’s important to keep in mind: sex, even great sex doesn’t necessarily equal orgasms. Because it’s generally very easy for men to get off, too easy at times. To be honest guys tend to be very orgasm-focused, seeing it as the end goal of sex. However, women’s ability to reach orgasm and what they need to get there can vary greatly from person to person. Some women need a great deal of direct clitoral stimulation,sometimes more than the human body can provide, in order to come. Others are easier to get off than a pair of shoes.