#4. Get a sexy brain
Your libido is like an engine. One of the sex secrets most important, that you need to find ways to turn yourself on, warm up, and get ready to go. Who have no idea what gets them going or what turns them off. Read erotic fiction, listening to erotic podcasts, or simply allowing yourself time to fantasize. Think about the last really enjoyable, hot, fun, connected, juicy experience you had with your partner. Use all five senses, take it in, and let it be something you can come back to time and time again.