#3. Ask her what she like … and really mean it
Every single girl has been with at least one guy who was going at it while saying things like, “You like that? Oh yeah baby, you like that!” Um, if you’re telling her that she like it, chances are you didn’t even bother to ask her. So ask! And when you ask her, she want you to really ask her.
Don’t make the act of asking a rhetorical ego booster that makes you feel like you’re “doing us right.” Ask if she like what you’re doing because you really want to do us right, not because you’re assuring yourself that you are. Trust, ladies want to be having just as much fun as you would like to think they are having, but they don’t all like the same things so do yourself a favor and find out what gets us going.