#9. Read her body language
While she may want it rougher in some areas, there are a few areas – namely the clitoris and the nipples – where she like it gentler. Unfortunately, a lot of you dudes get so caught up in the moment that you fail to decipher our “ooo’s” and “ah’s” from our “ah’s!” and “ouch’s!”
Women want you to be in tune with her cues so that you know when to lighten it up a little bit. Good sex starts with good communication, so be a great partner and listen to what her body is telling you, especially if her body is flinching, fidgeting, or jumping.